What does your partner do that makes you feel seen and understood? On the other hand, is there something you do that would make them complain they feel unseen and misunderstood?
Is watching porn cheating? I don’t think it is. If I found you my partner watching porn, I won’t think it’s a big deal. It’s not a deal breaker. You watch porn and masturbate, do whatever you want to do. It just doesn’t seem like something that I would worry about unless it was affecting our relationship.
Body shaming is mostly assumed to be something only women have to deal with. It even sounds wrong to say that I’ve been body shamed too as a man. Yet male body shaming happens. Why is it not given much attention then?
Over time, what makes or breaks a relationship are our individual habits and visions. If these things cannot marry, neither can you. And for this reason, Cera and I put a lot of effort into making these clear right from the time we started dating.
